men vs women

there are a lot of different between men and women. from physically to mentally.
i guess guys will always say "i dont understand girls" meanwhile, girls will always say " i don understand guys"
haha, my lecturer told us that, the different between girls and boys start from their brain.
our brains are same, however, girls brain got an extra part name 'emotional part'. girls will keep all the events happen in that part. so when a couple are fighting, girls will always say "remember that day, that month u did that to me, and now u do that again!! bla.. bla.." it's really normal, so boys please forgive ur girls.. beside, girls have a 'score board'. just like, in the date, the girl will give extra or minus the score of the boys by oversee the boy behavior. my lecturer give an example :
what will happen when a boy late for a dinner.
1. when a boy late for dinner, automatic the girl already minus 5marks.
2. so the boy must give a call or msg the girl, by doing that it can add 1 mark.
3. when the boy reach, be quiet but apologize and don't do extra explain, because the girl will think it's bullshit.
4. in the dinner time, praise the girl's cooking is good, it will increase ur mark.
5. praise that she is pretty, dont say that "u look good by wearing the dress", but say "the dress look good on u".
by doing this, it will avoid the boy from minus the 5marks ;)
meanwhile boys are a very ego person. my lecturer give an example
what should a girl do if lost, cant get the way to the location.
1. girls be quiet, shut up ur mouth.
2. dont ask the boy to go and ask some1 else, because boy is a very ego person, he wish he is the 1 to solve the girl problem, not other man to solve it.
3. soon or later, the boy will automatic stop and ask for help, but never never ask him to do that.
4. after he asked for help, never never say "see, i ask u to ask from the beginning!!"
5. when reach the party, never tell other that actually it's the boy lost, cant get the way. this will hurt boys' ego..
haha, it's really funny when i listen to my lecturers.
beside that, while facing stress (because i'm doing stress asignment), men and women will facing stress in different way. men will be fight or flight meanwhile women will be tend or befriend. the hormone proceed between women and men are different too.
my lecturer give a very good suggestion to improve the relationship between men and women. which is, ask ur man do a survey about girl (from hormone, organ, sex), while girls also do a survey bout guy. in the end, discuss about it together, and teach/explain to ur partner if they don't understand. this will totally improve the relationship. haha, i surely will use this method to my future boyfriend. lol