who love who more..

u will chose the person who love u more as you husband/wife?
or..
u will chose the person who u love him/her more as your husband/wife?
perhaps it's so hard to chose.. however most of us, will chose the person who love us more.. because none of us like the feeling of getting hurt.. human is selfish, we wish to get lots of love, but scare to give, scare will get hurt.. thus most of us will love ourselves more..
no matter what is it.. i remember what my lecturer told us.. he said:
"u must find someone who u wish to see every morning once u open your eyes!"

not to care too much of who love who more.. there will only got love for give and take.. wish all of us will find the one who we wish to see every morning.. hehe, don lie yourself and "cincai" get some1 who love u only.. because i believe it will be so suffer since we have to face the one who sleep beside us for the whole life.. haha