last week, as usual i took taxi back to my uni.. however, in the journey, the taxi uncle is so humor and chat alot with me..he told me that money is very important.. he keep complain about life is hard since now go everywhere also need money and it's hard to get new job opportunity for the new generation like me..
but what is the most funny and which i totally agree with him is what his review on money vs love..
Love cant buy from money, BUT money can totally foster the relationship!! there are a phrase 爱情喝水饱 which means we can survive because of love although there are only water.. however nowaday, it's hardly to find FREE, clean water.. u want water? mineral water will cost you at least rm1 as well.. LOL.. some more, now if u want to go for a toilet, it's cost for 20cent to 50cents. thus, money is important..
guys cant blame gals to be realistic or what because just look at the money.. Duh, it's will be so sienz if hang out also need take bus or AA.. let's say if the guy is unable to find money or rich, what will happen after marry? assurance for house, car (or mayb perhaps still have to take bus after married), daily expenses.. MANA CUKUP MAKAN? haha, if plus a baby? milk powder, diapers.. opss.. i cant imagine about it..
so, i want rich man!! LOL
Saturday, 26 April 2008
Wednesday, 16 April 2008
复杂vs简单
说真的,我觉得我也迷失了自己..看得越多,就觉得越不简单..觉得这世界很悲哀,很复杂..我也很想变得单纯,简单..但,在这现实社会里,是不可能的..有时候, 被伤害后,我们就会改变..改变成一个自己都不认识的人..有时候,我觉得这样的改变是很恐怖的..我不想改变..但是...如果不改变就会被人欺负了..
以前的我,没有想过要当老板..只是想当个普通的职员因为我更本就不喜欢面对权利,不喜欢当了老板后没有朋友,只有上士和下属的感觉..不想因为上位而迷失自己,察老板的鞋..但现在的我..面对了真真工作,被人狗眼看人低后..我就认为,我一定要有出人头地的一天..
以前的我很容易就把一个刚认识的人当成朋友..但经过一些被出卖事件..或者,我把那人当朋友,他把我当猪头后,就开始变得不容易相信一个人了..现在的我是..要当我真真的朋友?可要过很多关哦!!哈哈
以前的我,认为感情是很简单..只有爱和不爱..爱就接受,不爱就拒绝..但,其实并不是这样的..现在的感情可能就只有美和不美吧?很多时候,一段感情就是看外表..他很英俊,我爱他!她很美,我喜欢她!!同一时间,可以追几个的,谁先上钩,就选谁..因为这样而开始了..但过不久就会结束了..因为更本就没有深入地了解.."来得快,失去得更快"..所以换情人就像换衣服一样..多么的现实..
唉..
简单?单纯?只有小孩才有这样的权利吧!!
Tuesday, 15 April 2008
beer!!
i miss alcohol la.. still remember last time i hate alcohol.. but now i miss it.. lol, so people really will change.. perhaps from my previous post, i said i hate smoker, but at the end i may become a smoker as well.. lol, who's know?honestly, i get allergy after drinking beer.. i will grow rushes.. however, i still want to drink it.. lol, funny? i guess human is like that.. in chinese word - 犯溅! haha, anyway i wun drink too much.. becoz it will cause big stomach..
forgive & forget?
will there be forgive and forget?
honestly there will only be forgive, but it will not be forget..
we will remember all the incidents which happened to us..
i still remember the feeling of lose my father and grandma..
i still remember the feeling of being boikot by my friends..
i still remember the feeling of guilty when i did something wrong..
i still remember the feeling of sorry when i hurt someone..
i still remember the feeling of angry when i know the truth..
i still remember....
honestly i remember those incidents, from starting to ending.. what is the impact and effect to me and others.. the lesson i learned.. i remember..
however, no matter what the cause of the incident, i already stop asking why and just accept it.. no matter what the incident is, what is ur feeling on the spot.. it's already pass, don't stay in the pass, walk thru the pass and don't look back..
forgiveness
honestly there will only be forgive, but it will not be forget..
we will remember all the incidents which happened to us..
i still remember the feeling of lose my father and grandma..
i still remember the feeling of being boikot by my friends..
i still remember the feeling of guilty when i did something wrong..
i still remember the feeling of sorry when i hurt someone..
i still remember the feeling of angry when i know the truth..
i still remember....
honestly i remember those incidents, from starting to ending.. what is the impact and effect to me and others.. the lesson i learned.. i remember..
however, no matter what the cause of the incident, i already stop asking why and just accept it.. no matter what the incident is, what is ur feeling on the spot.. it's already pass, don't stay in the pass, walk thru the pass and don't look back..
forgiveness
Monday, 14 April 2008
my birthday says me..
"You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from reaching your goal. You always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your responsibility will eventually bring you success. Your Love, You adore your partner as the number one priority. You value your love one more than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all and your have potential to get married young."
lol, what do u think about that?
i like the word warrior.. but i don think i'm a responsible person.. and thn i really got the potential to married young!? i saw 10guys, thn will have feeling to all of them (if they are handsome la).. love, actually what is love? i really donno the feeling of love.. honestly, i don really want to start a relationship although i always ask friends to intro guys to me.. Now, i still enjoy the feeling of being single although sometimes will feel lonely.. but sometimes i enjoy the loneliness.. i can go anywhere without telling anyone, i can meet anyone, hang out with anyone i like.. so FREE~ some more, i can go out with all my friends, my time is so flexible.. i hate those person who forget friends after dating.. that's why i donwan to be like that as well.. thus i am still single.. honestly i wish my next partner will be my future husband terus.. if break, thn so fan.. hv to tell everyone that u back to SA (single n available), n answer the question why u break.. that's why, now FLIRTING is enuf lo.. LOL
married young!? perhaps time will answer the question..
lol, what do u think about that?
i like the word warrior.. but i don think i'm a responsible person.. and thn i really got the potential to married young!? i saw 10guys, thn will have feeling to all of them (if they are handsome la).. love, actually what is love? i really donno the feeling of love.. honestly, i don really want to start a relationship although i always ask friends to intro guys to me.. Now, i still enjoy the feeling of being single although sometimes will feel lonely.. but sometimes i enjoy the loneliness.. i can go anywhere without telling anyone, i can meet anyone, hang out with anyone i like.. so FREE~ some more, i can go out with all my friends, my time is so flexible.. i hate those person who forget friends after dating.. that's why i donwan to be like that as well.. thus i am still single.. honestly i wish my next partner will be my future husband terus.. if break, thn so fan.. hv to tell everyone that u back to SA (single n available), n answer the question why u break.. that's why, now FLIRTING is enuf lo.. LOL
married young!? perhaps time will answer the question..
Tuesday, 8 April 2008
Monday, 7 April 2008
unhappy because of..?
Most of the time.. we feel unhappy.. it's because we didn't get what we want? or it's because we are unsatisfied with what we have? my lecturer asked us this question before..
perhaps, it's because of we did not satisfy with what we having.. we always complain the person/stuff around us.. which including friend, family, partner or our belonging.. we have friends, but we will be unhappy with their attitude sometimes.. actually, i guess we have to appreciate the friends we have..
my lecturer said, some wives will complain their husband snore at night.. however if u asked those widows, u will get the answer that "they miss their husbands' snored"..
however, how many of us know to appreciate? we will feel it's nothing when we have it.. we will only feel want to appreciate.. human always like that.. lol.. anyway, i believe we will be more happy if we appreciate~ =)
Saturday, 5 April 2008
smoker
honestly, i don't understand why there are smoker in Malaysia.. probably smoking is a way to warm up our bodies, that's why foreigners smoke.. however, i don't think Malaysia need it to warm up because we never feel cold.
actually i really dislike smokers.. beside it's smelly and polluted the air. sometimes, i feel that smoker is no manner because some smokers do like to smoke in front of the public. don't they know that, 2nd hand smoke is worse and will die faster than the smoker? that's why, don't smoke in front of people.. actually, i will not scold on the spot and i also will be patience because of a word-- 'friend' but i DISLIKE smokers.
i guess some will say that smokers look so cool! but again.. once i see smoker-automatically will deduct the marks.. cool? i will never find that on smokers. LOL
some say that smoke will reduce stress, smoke will make you feel bz.. however, izit a good way to solve ur unhappiness by damaging ur health..? ermmm.. i donno, perhaps some will say that don wish to live so long in the world.. so am i because i guess it is not a good feeling of being old.. haha.. but smoke will just make u suffer from cancer.. if wanna die, die in the way of suddenly, don feel too much of pain, is a good way of dying.. haha
i know it is hard to quit smoke. however, alot of pregnant mothers can stop smoking because of their babies, so why man cannot? haha, try cut down 1st.. dont be too rush but never give up.. =)
effect of smoking:- facial tumor, second hand smoke, premature aging, hair loss, severe gingivitis, sunken face , lung cancers...
(pictures from American Next Top Model cycle 9)
actually i really dislike smokers.. beside it's smelly and polluted the air. sometimes, i feel that smoker is no manner because some smokers do like to smoke in front of the public. don't they know that, 2nd hand smoke is worse and will die faster than the smoker? that's why, don't smoke in front of people.. actually, i will not scold on the spot and i also will be patience because of a word-- 'friend' but i DISLIKE smokers.
i guess some will say that smokers look so cool! but again.. once i see smoker-automatically will deduct the marks.. cool? i will never find that on smokers. LOL
some say that smoke will reduce stress, smoke will make you feel bz.. however, izit a good way to solve ur unhappiness by damaging ur health..? ermmm.. i donno, perhaps some will say that don wish to live so long in the world.. so am i because i guess it is not a good feeling of being old.. haha.. but smoke will just make u suffer from cancer.. if wanna die, die in the way of suddenly, don feel too much of pain, is a good way of dying.. haha
i know it is hard to quit smoke. however, alot of pregnant mothers can stop smoking because of their babies, so why man cannot? haha, try cut down 1st.. dont be too rush but never give up.. =)
effect of smoking:- facial tumor, second hand smoke, premature aging, hair loss, severe gingivitis, sunken face , lung cancers...
(pictures from American Next Top Model cycle 9)
Thursday, 3 April 2008
change
change.. everyone will change.. change is a must for everyone
to archive higher, u have to change.. and everyone around u are changing as well, so u may have to change to go around with the people too.. so it's a thing that u cant avoid.
this is what my lecturer told us.. honestly he is very right. let's say everyone are learning technology, so u have to learn it as well.. change urself to become some1 who good in technology as well..
however, when u are changing, u have to know the reason and the logic of changing it. why u need to change? and why u donwan to change.. just like if u want to change ur car's engine power.. izit a must to change? and if u change it, wat impact will u get? when u need to change the engine, make sure it's safe for drive as well.. thus, it oni will become logic to change..
by the way, not everyone like change.. as my lecturer told me that some company prefer fresh graduate because they no need to unfreeze the fresh graduate's behavior and refreeze it.. so, try to tell ur employees to change but we still remain as ourselves! i am still who i am! so, are u..
change to become a good person
change from a good person to a better person!
change ^^
to archive higher, u have to change.. and everyone around u are changing as well, so u may have to change to go around with the people too.. so it's a thing that u cant avoid.
this is what my lecturer told us.. honestly he is very right. let's say everyone are learning technology, so u have to learn it as well.. change urself to become some1 who good in technology as well..
however, when u are changing, u have to know the reason and the logic of changing it. why u need to change? and why u donwan to change.. just like if u want to change ur car's engine power.. izit a must to change? and if u change it, wat impact will u get? when u need to change the engine, make sure it's safe for drive as well.. thus, it oni will become logic to change..
by the way, not everyone like change.. as my lecturer told me that some company prefer fresh graduate because they no need to unfreeze the fresh graduate's behavior and refreeze it.. so, try to tell ur employees to change but we still remain as ourselves! i am still who i am! so, are u..
change to become a good person
change from a good person to a better person!
change ^^
Wednesday, 2 April 2008
golf
it is the 1st sport that i like it so muchhhhh ^^
golf is a challengingly game. don feel that actually it's easy to play since all u need to do is just to swing the iron. and never tot u wun get sweat since all the days u may just stand there and swing it.. lol
although i am not good enough, but i really enjoy playing it!! sometimes i really get "OMG" when i swing it, the ball still in front of me.. but sometime i feel so damn happy when i swing my iron, the ball fly away so far.. the feeling really so good.
besides that, the uncles playing in the golf field, all are so friendly and nice.. they will teach u how to swing and share some tips as well.. so, i really enjoy it.
so, i already 'pakat' with my friend to continue joing the golf for next sem. it's wun be our koko, but join extra to have fun in the golf field.
it's really so challenge. becoz when u r playing in the golf field, u have to decide which iorn, woods to use. when u are in the green (the ending game), u have to put the ball, by aiming the hole. actually the hole design is not straight, so u have to put ur ball from left to right or mayb right to left.. it's need experience.. that's why beside it's a sport, u need to use ur brain as well..
i really like it la!! i becoming a GOLFER ^^
golf is a challengingly game. don feel that actually it's easy to play since all u need to do is just to swing the iron. and never tot u wun get sweat since all the days u may just stand there and swing it.. lol
although i am not good enough, but i really enjoy playing it!! sometimes i really get "OMG" when i swing it, the ball still in front of me.. but sometime i feel so damn happy when i swing my iron, the ball fly away so far.. the feeling really so good.
besides that, the uncles playing in the golf field, all are so friendly and nice.. they will teach u how to swing and share some tips as well.. so, i really enjoy it.
so, i already 'pakat' with my friend to continue joing the golf for next sem. it's wun be our koko, but join extra to have fun in the golf field.
it's really so challenge. becoz when u r playing in the golf field, u have to decide which iorn, woods to use. when u are in the green (the ending game), u have to put the ball, by aiming the hole. actually the hole design is not straight, so u have to put ur ball from left to right or mayb right to left.. it's need experience.. that's why beside it's a sport, u need to use ur brain as well..
i really like it la!! i becoming a GOLFER ^^
i'm so touching
this semester almost end.. i meet a lot of nice lecturers and tutors for this sem.. so touch, n feel like 'oh, there are hope in upm ..' lol..
1st, i would like to thanks to my lecturer of Organization behavior. he is a good and successful businessman. he always talk about life, future and sex.. lol.. he told us alot of thing.. he asked us what is life? what is the meaning of life.. the answer is 'survive'.. all of us have to survive in our life.. thus, he teach us alot of ways, n told us what is happen in real life and how to face that. so, i really learned alot from his lecture. he is the 1st lecturer i meet who really take his students as daughter and sons. he is strict, however it is for our own good.. he takes us as his employees, so that we got the experience and more well prepare for the future.
2nd, i would like to thanks to my golf coach.. two of the coaches are very nice. they are humor and friendly. when there are no bus to go ack to our college, he will fetch us. u guess what, all of us so dirty and sweat, but he never say a word, and just fetch us home. really so nice.. when we asked for postpone for CNY, they agree as well, and sent us cny greeting msg. if we need extra pratice, he come and fetch us, belanja breakfast and accompany us under the hot sun.. really touching and thank you..
3rd, thanks to my lab tutor.. she teach us spss which is a software of statistic. in the last day of tutor, she treat us sweets.. it is really sweet ^^
end of this sem, i am so touching.. and thanks to them.. i really have a nice memory in this sem.. thanks a lot^^
1st, i would like to thanks to my lecturer of Organization behavior. he is a good and successful businessman. he always talk about life, future and sex.. lol.. he told us alot of thing.. he asked us what is life? what is the meaning of life.. the answer is 'survive'.. all of us have to survive in our life.. thus, he teach us alot of ways, n told us what is happen in real life and how to face that. so, i really learned alot from his lecture. he is the 1st lecturer i meet who really take his students as daughter and sons. he is strict, however it is for our own good.. he takes us as his employees, so that we got the experience and more well prepare for the future.
2nd, i would like to thanks to my golf coach.. two of the coaches are very nice. they are humor and friendly. when there are no bus to go ack to our college, he will fetch us. u guess what, all of us so dirty and sweat, but he never say a word, and just fetch us home. really so nice.. when we asked for postpone for CNY, they agree as well, and sent us cny greeting msg. if we need extra pratice, he come and fetch us, belanja breakfast and accompany us under the hot sun.. really touching and thank you..
3rd, thanks to my lab tutor.. she teach us spss which is a software of statistic. in the last day of tutor, she treat us sweets.. it is really sweet ^^
end of this sem, i am so touching.. and thanks to them.. i really have a nice memory in this sem.. thanks a lot^^
Tuesday, 1 April 2008
haha, it has been a long time i dint update my blog nia...
so it consider i break my promise to tning tim.. haha
terpaksa la, coz a bit bz ma...
alot of assignments and presentation, kuiz and test..
soon my finale exam will come lo.. havent do any preparation..
at 1st tot wanna study my finale in uni since there are no entertainment.. but u guess what?
there are 'wind' that said, a rape case happen around my hostel!!! n it did by 'oil man'.
hear 'oil men' before? he know bomoh, that's why it is very dangerous.. dangerous than a normal man. some say he can walk thru the wall.. so it is useless to lock ur door as well.. the oil man come from usm, to ukm.. n now at upm..
really scary.. so i decide to go back home tomolo (wed), and study.. wish i will study at home as well la.. although there are alot entertainments waiting for me at home..
wish me luck ^^
so it consider i break my promise to tning tim.. haha
terpaksa la, coz a bit bz ma...
alot of assignments and presentation, kuiz and test..
soon my finale exam will come lo.. havent do any preparation..
at 1st tot wanna study my finale in uni since there are no entertainment.. but u guess what?
there are 'wind' that said, a rape case happen around my hostel!!! n it did by 'oil man'.
hear 'oil men' before? he know bomoh, that's why it is very dangerous.. dangerous than a normal man. some say he can walk thru the wall.. so it is useless to lock ur door as well.. the oil man come from usm, to ukm.. n now at upm..
really scary.. so i decide to go back home tomolo (wed), and study.. wish i will study at home as well la.. although there are alot entertainments waiting for me at home..
wish me luck ^^
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